Leviticus 21:7 The man is holy unto God. He is the priest, the cohen of his house.

(King James Version)  They shall not take a wife that is a whore, or profane; neither shall they take a woman put away from her husband: for he is holy unto his God.

(Youngs Living Translation)  ‘A woman, a harlot, or polluted, they do not take, and a woman cast out from her husband they do not take, for he is holy to his God;

(Cepher)  They shall not take a woman that is a whore, or profane; neither shall they take a woman put away from her man: for he is holy unto his Elohiym.

(Complete Jewish Bible)  ” ‘A cohen is not to marry a woman who is a prostitute, who has been profaned or who has been divorced; because he is holy for his God.

(English Standard Version)  They shall not marry a prostitute or a woman who has been defiled, neither shall they marry a woman divorced from her husband, for the priest is holy to his God.

Deu 22:28  If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; 

Deu 22:29  Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

Divorce Destroys The ‘Priesthood’ God Designed

3500 years later we’ve changed the rules. This is the conversation they have had:

If a woman divorces her husband after marriage, how will she remarry? If she is a true believer desiring to be a woman of God, she won’t marry again. She is not a virgin. Men are to marry virgins.

(Yet, as woman age their hormones change and that is not their main interest. This is when we see a husband or wife desiring separate bedrooms…. and maybe snoring plays into it, too.)

If a man divorces his wife after years of marriage, how will he remarry? He is suppose to only marry a virgin. He might not re-marry as ‘robbing the cradle’ is looked down upon. And his new younger wife could be resented by his grown children who may even have their own children. Thus, Godly divorced men may possibly live without affection the rest of their lives. This is sad because their hormones have not changed.

A Jezebel Spirit of Control

A Jezebel Spirited woman is still in control when divorcing her original marriage covenant partner. She is no longer in covenant with him, but she still controls him. She may not see him ever again but she has still placed her control over him if he is to stay ‘holy’ unto the Lord.

The Jezebel Spirit may see each other daily or weekly as they intermingle within the family. Some Jezebel’s may still cook together and keep up two home, too. Both may want to see the dog to whom they both now have visiting rights. The spirit of Jezebel is CONTROL.

What is the answer to this? STOP IT! There is a cute skit from Bob Neuhart many years past. He is counseling a female client that has many fears. She can only pay for 5 minutes of his service. She keeps telling him her fears and after each one…he softly says, “Stop It!” Finally, there is just a minute left of her session. She is not liking his advise of just being told to ‘STOP IT’ after each fear she tells him. Her first fear was being buried alive in a box. Her fear now becomes that he will say, “Just Stop It”. You will have to pull up this show called, ‘Stop It’ by Bob Neuhart…it is hilarious. The ‘punchline’ is awesome. Neuhart now screams at her because she is screaming at him. He proclaims loudly, “STOP IT or I will bury you alive in a box!” I just could not help sharing that punchline with you. Her greatest fear now had the face of the man that warned her to not worry about her fears.

Don’t we wish we could resolve marriage disputes by just saying, “Stop It!” Men love their wives by providing safe havens for them and their children. Today, with both spouses working, both have become more independent with their own money. This can be a curse and a blessing. If woman feels left out, they start building their own wall of protection. Instead of building a marriage covenant of strength in unity it can become one of enjoying their spouse by at a distance. Distance becomes more distance and soon the ‘love bug’ falls away.

The ‘reality check’ is that we have let man’s rules overshadow God’s instructions. We don’t even know what God says about the Covenant of Marriage much less on whom we are suppose to marry. We make up our own rules and regulations. We definitely would not have men in jail for rape if they knew that person was to be their bride or husband. To take a woman’s virginity from her is huge with God. It just is not done. Woman should not give the most intimate part of themselves to any man but their husband on their ‘covenant’ night.

The theme God plays out is that He is a jealous God. He desires ONE bride, and she cannot be involved with other idols (gods). The man as the priest of the house is to be honored. He is responsible to God for his wife and family. Christ was responsible to The Father for The Bride. Christ’s coming to earth was to DIE for The Bride named Israel. The Father is well pleased with The Son as He began his ministry being baptized. The Son had committed to fully walk out His life for The Bride. Many could now join the marriage through The Son’s willingness.

The Son of God in the flesh known as Yeshua Jesus is still grooming The Bride. The Father knows the correct time to send The Son for The Bride. This is what we are waiting for right now. Our earth is the woman Israel groaning in labor pains.

Today’s brides don’t understand this. What if they fall into the deception of divorce? Are they cast out?

And if children deny parents telling them not to divorce, that is even more critical. Dishonoring parents has the weight of death attached to it. Yes, it is the first commandment that has a blessing attached to it, but that also means the opposite is a curse. Not listening to parents can bring what seems like illness (no blessing) to one’s entire life to the third and fourth generation in that family.

We see the generational sin come through Solomon’s sin. God said he would take the kingdom from Solomon because he trusted in other nations. Yet, the loss of The Kingdom sitting at Jerusalem would come to Solomon’s third and fourth generation which it did!

But right before the kingdom ended by going to Babylon for 70 years, wonderful King Josiah returned the people back to Torah principles. He had an even larger Pesach that Solomon. Why was this? It may have been due to the face that his kingdom had grown and there were more people in it to attend the eight day celebration of The Seder. Yet, it was King Yosiah that paid for it. It came from his heart and not the people. Releasing debt is part of Torah. The people were not willing to set their land-owners free from debt owed them in the seventh year.

This is prophetic to our generation. We are seeing a King Josiah rise up seen in Donald J Trump’s third calling. His first reign was cut short because of a politically self-induced plague. Trump’s second reign was denied through world-wide evil government interference. This third reign is currently underway which is shaking the nations. The Jezebel spirit of control permeates out earth.

Jeremiah had bad news for the last king Zechariah. YHWH would no longer hear Israel’s prayers. It was time to give up and go. Do not fight, just go to Babylon. Yet, the bride Isra’el was told she would be back in exactly 70 years. This shows us Israel’s Torah and Torah Teacher will be leading us at 7000 years. It is called Day Seven. We witnessing Day Six closing in our lifetime. This is happening so Day Seven remains ‘The Sign’ of The Creator’s will on earth.

The Bride will remain with bloodstains showing her commitment to her husband, Yeshua. The bride stands with her husband never divorcing him. She is committed to her husband’s father as well. The Father and The Son are one. We the bride can only survive as a family.

Adam was instructed to stop work after six days. The Sabbath ‘sign’ is for The Bride. It was made for man and his bride to show their respect to the parent (God). Our earth has transitioned to The Sign of The Sabbath on a world-wide scale. Yeshua’s literal presence on earth will not just be a ‘voice’, but will be a husband in a transformed physical body.

This is scheduled for the entire duration of 7000th years. Day Seven is about the Day Six Suffering Servant. First we see a husband suffering for The Bride. Then we see a husband as her King of Kings. We are likened to Queen Esther who receives half of her husband’s kingdom because she is a trusted bride. This just meant that she was ‘second’ to his authority.

(In divorce there is no trust left between a couple. There is no trust left in the family. All feel they have been deceived.) The Bride stands with her husband giving him honor over herself. He is the priest of their home as God is The Father of all creatures. The Son submitted to The Father’s will even though he was God.

Joseph had Pharaoh’s wife chase after him. He was not killed as this king was ruled by his Jezebel (controlling) wife. Yoseph suffered in prison because of a Jezebel bride. Joseph was already operating in the instructions of not violating another man’s wife. Wow, this was in his heart before Mosch brought them to Sinai. How did he know this? SHEM!

Shem was still around teaching them ‘the heart’ of God. “I will have no other heights before me.” Shem saw the Tower of Babel torn down. Nimrod built it. Shem warned this ‘bride’ NOT to assimilate into the world. Shem knew going against the ways of YHWH would just bring correction. He was 100 years old when he had his first child that would create a ‘righteous’ line. There was to be no divorce. If there was, that lineage was not listed as pure. Abraham waited for the son born to him at age 100. This son was Isaac who always stayed close to both his parents Abraham and Rivcah (Rebekah). His righteous seed came at age 60. Sixty shows us a child born to feel the plights of our world for 6000 years. Ya’cov’s life was full of children with four different mothers. They represent the four ‘wind’s, horns, corners’ of the earth. This child chosen for righteous purposes would even be named Isra’el…struggles for the causes of YHWH.

YHWH wants a pure bride. Adam’s Chanoah repented and Adam himself repented. Cain was born when Adam was 50 years old. Able was born seven years later when both his parents were 57 years old. We see all of them offering sacrifices with Cain’s being rejected. Cain did not do it from his heart but just out of activity. The ground was cursed at that time. It was hard work to get produce to grow. It was a spring festival called Shavuot when Cain’s heart was found out. It was alright to bring his ‘first fruits’ as we still do that today. But, perhaps he held back the ‘real’ grains that had more value.

And there was Joseph who drew his family to Egypt of whom would end up building those great pyramids which acted as water aquifers. The world was generating electricity via the pyramids sitting by rivers.

If we can wrap ourselves into God’s design for marriage we can wrap ourselves into staying married. As Believers, we are a picture of The Bride being prepared for a Wedding Banquet ready to happen. God is seeking a virgin. No other heights, no other symbols, no controlling Jezebel spirit hovering over us.

God is seeking a pure person who does not have to always be at the top of life.

We are to be free in Christ / The Messiach that is coming soon. What if he finds you naked? What if the clothes you have on are stained? We know that the five virgins were caught without oil. What does that oil represent? The Spirit of God was far from them.

Divorce is sin. God never allowed it. Anti Torah is being lawless. It is accepting that some Scriptures are not worthy of man’s consideration. We must remember that there is not one principle in what is called, “The New Testament’ that was not first spoken in the ‘Old Testament’. It is evil to think that our Creator is not the same with Adam to now. If God changes He cannot be trusted. Think about it. Not taking the OT word for word removes God’s words from the earth. The disciple’s words were second hand experiences. They only said what had been said before. And, when Yeshua spoke he said that He could only speak what The Father spoke. What did the Father speak? The Torah! We are one in thought when we all agree with Torah. We are one with The Father and The Son because we all agree to God’s instruction laid out from the beginning of the foundation of the earth…starting with Adam in the Gan of Eden. The family started in Jerusalem where The Gan of Eden was.

In thinking that the Old Testament is done away with has done great harm to our society. Christian divorce is as common as secular people getting a divorce. Who do the secular people go to for counseling? A divorce lawyer is not designed to STOP divorce. By the time the couple sits down dividing their assets, it’s too late. This couple has not even opened their bibles for council because they think the OT does not apply to us today. Using the word testament is even wrong. God operates in covenants. Testaments are dead people’s wishes. Again people live with words not even understanding them.

And what does the NT say about divorce? It guides people to stand before the congregation to bring resolution according to The Torah. If one of them makes a public statement that they desire to not go according to God’s laws, then that person must agree to not be part of that church community. Canceling God’s guidelines does cancel church membership.

Yes, they are NOT to attend anything at that church again. People who desire divorce are also divorcing the church they attend. People who desire divorce are also divorcing their in-laws. They are divorcing their entire family and should not attend family gatherings. Breaking a covenant made with God in the middle of it will break your relationship with Him.

It is a horrible thing to say they love God and yet say that God sanctions their actions. We must never make our words God’s words. He says that we do NOT know Him! His ways are far above our ways. At Mt. Sinai God repented for wanting to divorce them. He agreed to take them back because they repented and said, “Yes, we will do all that you tell Moses for us to do.” They did not want to hear the thundering and see the lightening of God anymore. They knew if they did come under that wrath, they would no longer live.

Exodus 33:14  He answered, “Set your mind at rest—my presence will go with you, after all.” 
Exo 33:15  Moshe replied, “If your presence doesn’t go with us, don’t make us go on from here. 
Exo 33:16  For how else is it to be known that I have found favor in your sight, I and your people, other than by your going with us? That is what distinguishes us, me and your people, from all the other peoples on earth.” 

God does not divorce those that repent.

More guidelines on Divorce were only given by Mosch because of man’s hardened heart. Let us remember that Mosch did not cross over. He gave into the people too many times. He does show up on the other side when conferring with Yeshua before the crucifixion. Everything that Mosch preached at Mt. Sinai had to be done perfectly and in order. Every prophecy had to be filled up to show Yeshua was the Messiah.

He begged for God not to divorce them. He understood the ramification. God could have chosen his family to bring everything about. Mosch did not want the world to think God couldn’t work through people. It is our stubborn heart that still causes us to divorce. In these end days there is not much respect for The Torah. Therefore we are seeing the spiraling down to The Final Burn.

How do we find favor? We want to know how NOT to sin against God!

Exodus 33:13  Now, please, if it is really the case that I have found favor in your sight, show me your ways; so that I will understand you and continue finding favor in your sight. Moreover, keep on seeing this nation as your people.” 

You get to know how to pronounce God’s name. Favor and mercy are God’s to give.

Exo 33:19  He replied, “I will cause all my goodness to pass before you, and in your presence I will pronounce the name of Adonai. Moreover, I show favor to whomever I will, and I display mercy to whomever I will. 

Laws Concerning Divorce

Deuteronomy 24:1  When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. 

Deu 24:2  And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man’s wife. 

Deu 24:3  And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife; 

Deu 24:4  Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance. 

This woman was never a virgin for this husband. She was found out and she moved on to lie to someone else. In our generation we have lost sight of this guideline. Therefore, we never get into the depth of this conversation.

Lesson One: So what is this uncleanness? She was not a virgin!

Lesson two: SIDS: God has concern for sexually transmitted diseases. Once someone has relations with another person they cannot go back to their old partner. God is totally about being CLEAN. He is a holy God and expects his children to be set apart as clean.

Now let’s look at this example of a man trying to get out of his marriage when the girl really was a virgin. He took her and made her a defiled woman. He is not to get away with it. He is to remain married to this virgin his entire life.

Laws Concerning Sexual Immorality

Deuteronomy 22:13  If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her, 

Deu 22:14  And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid: 

Deu 22:15  Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel’s virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate: 

Deu 22:16  And the damsel’s father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her; 

Deu 22:17  And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter’s virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city. 

Deu 22:18  And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him; 

Deu 22:19  And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days. 

Deu 22:20  But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel: 

Deu 22:21  Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father’s house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you. 

Scriptures shows us other examples of the death penalty. Yet, once sin is stated as very serious beause of the ‘death penalty’, it just does not happen. It is given to make us afraid….as spoken in these verses.

A Rebellious Son
Deu 21:18  “If a man has a stubborn, rebellious son who will not obey what his father or mother says, and even after they discipline him he still refuses to pay attention to them; 
Deu 21:19  then his father and mother are to take hold of him and bring him out to the leaders of his town, at the gate of that place, 
Deu 21:20  and say to the leaders of his town, ‘This son of ours is stubborn and rebellious, he doesn’t pay attention to us, lives wildly, gets drunk.’ 
Deu 21:21  Then all the men of his town are to stone him to death; in this way you will put an end to such wickedness among you, and all Isra’el will hear about it and be afraid. 

EVIL SPEECH – Judgment of Leprosy

Deuteronmy 24:8  Take heed in the plague of leprosy, that thou observe diligently, and do according to all that the priests the Levites shall teach you: as I commanded them, so ye shall observe to do. 

Deu 24:9  Remember what the LORD thy God did unto Miriam by the way, after that ye were come forth out of Egypt. 

(evil speech: brought skin problems)

Vows Before God

Deu 23:21  When thou shalt vow a vow unto the LORD thy God, thou shalt not slack to pay it: for the LORD thy God will surely require it of thee; and it would be sin in thee. 

Deu 23:22  But if thou shalt forbear to vow, it shall be no sin in thee. 

Should you get married? It is God’s mandate as it multiplies the earth. Just make sure the person you make this vow with is willing to stay with you a lifetime. Breaking a vow is sin. Marriage is a ‘vow’ involving God. God instituted marriage with Adam.

Having sex instills the marriage covenant. Yeshua knew how many husbands the woman at the well had had. He knew everything about her. He knew that she could not get pregnant. She was not a harlot. Yeshua knew she was a barren woman. Yeshua Jesus had compassion for her. It could be that her last husband would not give her a decree of divorce. She then resorted to living with another man. When giving a decree of divorce the man is still responsible for taking care of her for her entire life. None of her former husband’s wanted to take care of this barren woman for life. Torah was violated by the men. These men could not throw a stone because they were responsible for her demise. In New York there are courts that require men to issue decrees of divorce and not leave their wive to the streets.

Do not divorce. Be patient as Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and Tamar were. Every child is born with purpose. A woman having a baby brings great blessing to her life. There are no mistakes. Each human is divinely ordained. Parents must set the example of not divorcing. If they do divorce, they will see their children and their children’s children as that curse will go on for three and four generations. Children must not SEE divorce. It is our mandate to be safe within our marriages. It is a mandate for the couples to stay married if the one is not a believer. By the life of the believer the other might become a believer.

Mat 18:35  This is how my heavenly Father will treat you, unless you each forgive your brother from your hearts.” 

Mathew 18:19 is where several come to agree about The Torah rulings. It is not coming together to agree if you should fly to Europe or buy a new house. This verse has been taken out of context because we don’t realize that the ‘law’ was first given from The Father in Heaven. It was agreed upon by the people making them one in thinking with The Father. What is in Heaven is to be on earth.

If Your Brother Sins Against You
Mat 18:15  “Moreover, if your brother commits a sin against you, go and show him his fault—but privately, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won back your brother. 
Mat 18:16  If he doesn’t listen, take one or two others with you so that every accusation can be supported by the testimony of two or three witnesses. 
Mat 18:17  If he refuses to hear them, tell the congregation; and if he refuses to listen even to the congregation, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax-collector. 
Mat 18:18  Yes! I tell you people that whatever you prohibit on earth will be prohibited in heaven, and whatever you permit on earth will be permitted in heaven. 
Mat 18:19  To repeat, I tell you that if two of you here on earth agree about anything people ask, it will be for them from my Father in heaven. 
Mat 18:20  For wherever two or three are assembled in my name, I am there with them.” 

This is church discipline. It can be agreed upon by the Father in Heaven because it first came from the Father in Heaven.

What is my name? God consists of The Torah. His name is his characteristics which are seen in The Torah… the instructions He gives man to live by. His name is righteousness, justice, judge with mercy extending to all etc. etc. etc.

What is the ‘First Love’ we are to return to? The Torah! Revelation 2:4-5

Mat 19:4  He replied, “Haven’t you read that at the beginning the Creator made them male and female, 
Mat 19:5  and that he said, ‘For this reason a man should leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and the two are to become one flesh’? 
Mat 19:6  Thus they are no longer two, but one. So then, no one should split apart what God has joined together.” 
Mat 19:7  They said to him, “Then why did Moshe give the commandment that a man should hand his wife a get and divorce her?” 
Mat 19:8  He answered, “Moshe allowed you to divorce your wives because your hearts are so hardened. But this is not how it was at the beginning. 
Mat 19:9  Now what I say to you is that whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery!” 

Jezebel controlled her husband. Woman are to respect their husband. Husbands are to love their wife. If woman respect their husbands their married children will respect their husbands.

Divorce stops when we refuse to accept four sets of parents at our gatherings.

Divorce stops when we stop requiring others to explain whose family is whose.

Rev 2:4  But I have this against you: you have lost the love you had at first. 
Rev 2:5  Therefore, remember where you were before you fell, turn from this sin, and do what you used to do before. Otherwise, I will come to you and remove your menorah from its place—if you don’t turn from your sin! 
Rev 2:6  But you have this in your favor: you hate what the Nicolaitans do—I hate it too. 
Rev 2:7  Those who have ears, let them hear what the Spirit is saying to the Messianic communities. To him winning the victory I will give the right to eat from the Tree of Life which is in God’s Gan-`Eden.” ‘ 

Claim the name, “VICTORY’.